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Hello there,
I am very new to this style of dating, so here it goes...I am a very friendly, caring, and fun man that happens to be masculine. That doesn't mean I am not very sensitive to the needs of friends or my significant other. In fact, I love to cuddle, entertain wild, crazy, and imaginitive thoughts, and express myself in ways that are gender free. I believe a relationship or people shouldn't be defined in terms of gender, but I do have a way about me that most would describe to be masculine. I value privacy and discretion, but its not in any way because I'm ashamed of who I am. I have no problems telling people what or who I am. However, I don't feel that I should have to advertise either. Unless someone asks me, I don't have to announce who I am. I am straight-acting, but very free and accepting of all people in mind, body, and spirit. I know who I am. My time is expensive, so if you are into playing games (meaning one-night stands), are unsure of who you are, or can't be honest with yourself or me, please don't waste my time. I would like to start off as friends first; getting to know someone slowly, but also in the interest of cultivating something special. I have a wide variety of interests, such as traveling, drinking coffee and conversing for hours, dancing, listening to music, biking, basketball and other sports, dining in or out, learning and reading about people, and much, much, more. I hope you will be the one for me, but if not its all good. I only ask that you be real about everything. Come Rap With Me

Aries

Average

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Brown

African American

Never Married

No

Not Sure

Smile

Black

No pets

No

University Degree

Full-time

Education / Academic

Guess!

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Nerd

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing

Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards, Gambling, Volunteering, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

To go to a nice restaurant for dinner, attend a concert in which a live band is playing, and then end with some kind of coffee or dessert.

Skate-Boarding, Swiming, and Skydiving, but I have to be to work in the morning, and I'm not always confident that the recovery time will long enough :-)

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Christian

Once A Month

Very Liberal

To be a good person to my friends and family.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy

News, Movies

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family

Country, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Dance, Soul, Gospel

History, Humor, Philosophy, Political, Satire

Having friends come over and watch movies, play boardgames, dance around the living room, hang out in the spa, and then crash!! Or it could be a spare of the moment trip to Tahoe or Reno! As long as it involves good people laughing, dancing, and playing, it's all good!

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I look for someone who is imperfect, but has values, someone who has goals, but thinks about other people. I'm also looking for someone who is confident in who they are but isn't afraid to be vulnerable at times. I'm also interested in finding someone who is impassioned with making the world a little bit better than it was before he arrived. I know it sounds like a tall order, but these very qualities that I want in a mate are the same ones that I'm working on too...And it's that hard work that I think is hella sexy and admirable!

Date, Intimate, Committed