English, Other

Hey there I am a good man - whimsical, super square (now) but if there was ever trouble to be found, I've been there... I just turned 50 and it's time for me to commit to being who I really am. I want love and partnership in my life. It is easy for me to to interested in a man with dark skin and eyes, so if it's easy for you to fall in love with a beige man with a past, let's have a conversation.



Let's be interested in more than just sex, and let's be highly interested in sex! I am tall - 6'1" - and currently weighing more than I'd like to admit, buy, hey, I like a big man, so maybe you do, too. But I am not limited to that. I pretty much love everyone, but who I fall for, there will be an element of surrender on my part, so if you like to pounce and gently take what you want, I can work with that. Mostly, I want to be vulnerable and so in love with you that you are nourished by it and want you to feel free to be vulnerable with me. And this takes time for most, so I am also patient if we think that's where we want to go.



I promise to make you beautiful, no matter what you look like. It's okay if we start out with you thinking you are not good looking, have a big stomach, etc... I'll be honest if I can't work with it, and I would want that from you, too. In spite of my good looks, I have scars and am getting signs of age, like white hairs and out of shape - you gotta be able to appreciate me just as I am same as I'd do for you. I am no longer going to win any beauty contests, but once upon a time, I was an angel, and that beauty still resides within...



To be real honest, I am currently dealing with health issues, but still work on community development in a third world country for a company called Kledev, and what I'd ultimately like is someone who likes that I do that, even if it's not their thing. I would support you in loving what you do, or better yet, doing what you love.



I haven't signed on as a paying member here, so if you're trying to contact me, it might be tricky and you might have to figure something out. A good life with a good man is what I am out to create. What about you? What are you creating?

Virgo

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

Hands

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Salt And Pepper

No pets

Some College

Other

Founding Director/CEO

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Outcast

Friendly, Observant, Outgoing

Arts & Crafts, Computers, Cooking, Dining, Exercising, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Photography, Reading, Travel, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things

with someone who is willing to let it happen. It doesn't really matter what we're doing or where we are. We have a conversation and it's easy to share about life. We respect each other and are looking for compatibility vs reasons to reject.

I either do it or I don't do it. There are some things I'd like to DO, and a few I would not like to do. I do not, for instance, want to have a large spider crawl along my naked arm! I'm not doing that! Also probably not jumping out of an airplane, but open to just about everything else.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Perfect, Obscure, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

Not Sure

Well, what I'm committed to is being free to do what I want to do or what I am passionate about, having fun, loving profoundly and making a difference with people. I have reached this goal many times, and there's always more to do, so it's not a destination. It's constant dance, and if one of those is happening, I'm who I want to be.

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows, I Don't Like Tv

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama

Comic, Instructional, Philosophy, Reference

Number one without a doubt - to be in the presence of love OR to be naked and in the presence of love or being horizontal and looking into the eyes of love. Beyond that, it's fun to work with someone who is struggling with something to have them let go of the the struggle and create something new. It's fun to have great friends around to laugh and play with. It's fun to produce amazing results with one's day. It's fun to be together doing nothing. Nothing leads to something and I am committed to making whatever I'm doing fun.

Boldness, Empathy, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

I look (and listen) for the possibility of profound, unconditional love being fulfilled, and for the moment when someone gets inspired by who they are. I look (and listen) for a persons greatness even when it's not evident. I look for softness and openness and connection, for interests and enjoyment, for kindness. I look beneath the surface of your identity so find who is really there.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed